05-20-2012, 10:18 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-20-2012, 10:24 PM by Aurora Moon.)
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I find it funny when John L tries to justify the behavior of those people.
Honestly, Even if one thinks that it's "deviant", the guy was not hurting anybody at all and from the looks of him he was most likely transitioning into a woman. It's just clothes, for pete's sake. Clothes don't disturb the natural order of things, etc.. they're just coverings to keep your body protected and that's it.
I could go out into public wearing 18th century male clothing on a regular basis and it would do nothing to disturb anybody at all. Would I get some stares? probably, but it does not disturb the natural order or some bullcrap.
The only time I would ever support the authorities' behavior, when a student comes into school wearing clothes that reflect hate speech and or speaks of intent to harm other students. For instance, a KKK hood and robe. That sort of thing.
Otherwise, I don't give a fuck if all boys suddenly started wearing skirts or kilts.... I would just wonder why they found skirts so appealing because I never liked them much as a girl myself. more of a pants person myself. skirts are just impractical overall in my opinion.
And for the record, I don't get grossed out by seeing two women kiss or do other stuff. I also don't get grossed out watching two Men kiss. and I'm straight. (Although I will confess that sometimes seeing two men kissing intrigues me, espeically if they're both hot).
All I see is two human beings expressing their love for each other... in the same way I would see a woman or man kiss each other.
on a slightly related side note: I find it weird that people would get so easily grossed out at seeing two people HOLD HANDS in public just because of their gender. They then explain it it by saying that they basically picture those people having sex, and it's too much for their vivid imaginations.
To me this means they just admitted to being TOTAL PERVERTS. It's like every time "you" walk by some hetrosexual couple holding hands in a mall "you" instantly picture them having hardcore sex? And "you" do the same for the Homosexual couples too? MY GOD! Talk about being filthy-minded. And they're worried that their children will be equally as filthy-minded as they are, and promptly start asking about what Gay sex is the minute they see two boys holding hands in a mall.
Oh yeah, as if that's likely to happen. most likely they will only see two best buds holding hands, not gay men holding hands, depending on their age. and then they'll be wondering why their parents are reacting so strongly to the men holding hands. so in essence, it will be "YOUR" behavior that brought on the "talk", not the men's so-called "Deviant" behavior.
There was a recent study that proved that people who object the strongest and the loudest to what they consider "deviant behavior" are more likely to be more obsessed with "Deviant behavior" and to engage into it. in other words, people who who are truly homophobic are really self-phobic. Here's a few links to the studies:
http://www.politicolnews.com/homophobic-...udy-shows/
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/201...234458.htm
Of course there's most likely two groups of "homophobic" people.
The first group, you got men and women going out of their way to prove just how STRAIGHT they truly are. They go overboard with it, to the point that they completely diss anybody who doesn't fit their ideals of what "being straight" means. They're not very comfortable with who they are at all, and it's no big surprise to anybody when it turns out that they're not so straight after all.
The second group is not really "homophobic" at all, But just regular people who don't really fully understand what the other sexual orientations are like. And as an result, they "fear" what they don't understand. Then add on the Follower mentality, where they prefer to have leaders tell them what's "right" and what's "wrong".... instead of having god guide them or their instincts tell them what's moral or what's not. The sad part is that if they truly understood what having a different sexual orientation was like, they wouldn't act "scared" at all. They just wouldn't give a f**K about what others did in the bedroom.
You know something? I bet those school staff are so disturbed by the boy wearing skirts because they find him hot on a subconscious level, and they're not supposed to think that way about a student?
Honestly, Even if one thinks that it's "deviant", the guy was not hurting anybody at all and from the looks of him he was most likely transitioning into a woman. It's just clothes, for pete's sake. Clothes don't disturb the natural order of things, etc.. they're just coverings to keep your body protected and that's it.
I could go out into public wearing 18th century male clothing on a regular basis and it would do nothing to disturb anybody at all. Would I get some stares? probably, but it does not disturb the natural order or some bullcrap.
The only time I would ever support the authorities' behavior, when a student comes into school wearing clothes that reflect hate speech and or speaks of intent to harm other students. For instance, a KKK hood and robe. That sort of thing.
Otherwise, I don't give a fuck if all boys suddenly started wearing skirts or kilts.... I would just wonder why they found skirts so appealing because I never liked them much as a girl myself. more of a pants person myself. skirts are just impractical overall in my opinion.
And for the record, I don't get grossed out by seeing two women kiss or do other stuff. I also don't get grossed out watching two Men kiss. and I'm straight. (Although I will confess that sometimes seeing two men kissing intrigues me, espeically if they're both hot).
All I see is two human beings expressing their love for each other... in the same way I would see a woman or man kiss each other.
on a slightly related side note: I find it weird that people would get so easily grossed out at seeing two people HOLD HANDS in public just because of their gender. They then explain it it by saying that they basically picture those people having sex, and it's too much for their vivid imaginations.
To me this means they just admitted to being TOTAL PERVERTS. It's like every time "you" walk by some hetrosexual couple holding hands in a mall "you" instantly picture them having hardcore sex? And "you" do the same for the Homosexual couples too? MY GOD! Talk about being filthy-minded. And they're worried that their children will be equally as filthy-minded as they are, and promptly start asking about what Gay sex is the minute they see two boys holding hands in a mall.
Oh yeah, as if that's likely to happen. most likely they will only see two best buds holding hands, not gay men holding hands, depending on their age. and then they'll be wondering why their parents are reacting so strongly to the men holding hands. so in essence, it will be "YOUR" behavior that brought on the "talk", not the men's so-called "Deviant" behavior.
There was a recent study that proved that people who object the strongest and the loudest to what they consider "deviant behavior" are more likely to be more obsessed with "Deviant behavior" and to engage into it. in other words, people who who are truly homophobic are really self-phobic. Here's a few links to the studies:
http://www.politicolnews.com/homophobic-...udy-shows/
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/201...234458.htm
Of course there's most likely two groups of "homophobic" people.
The first group, you got men and women going out of their way to prove just how STRAIGHT they truly are. They go overboard with it, to the point that they completely diss anybody who doesn't fit their ideals of what "being straight" means. They're not very comfortable with who they are at all, and it's no big surprise to anybody when it turns out that they're not so straight after all.
The second group is not really "homophobic" at all, But just regular people who don't really fully understand what the other sexual orientations are like. And as an result, they "fear" what they don't understand. Then add on the Follower mentality, where they prefer to have leaders tell them what's "right" and what's "wrong".... instead of having god guide them or their instincts tell them what's moral or what's not. The sad part is that if they truly understood what having a different sexual orientation was like, they wouldn't act "scared" at all. They just wouldn't give a f**K about what others did in the bedroom.
You know something? I bet those school staff are so disturbed by the boy wearing skirts because they find him hot on a subconscious level, and they're not supposed to think that way about a student?