11-22-2011, 06:57 PM
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well, sex is pretty high up there on the list for some women too. I was super-horny as a teenage girl and engaged in a lot of self-sasitication myself. I had a massive crush on this hunky male teacher as a girl.
so years later as an adult myself, if I heard that some teenage girl got into an "relationship" with a hot hunky male teacher that looked similar to the male teacher I used to fantasize about, would it be in bad taste for me to say things simlar to what the men up above said?
"You slept with somebody that hot?! Way to go girl... I used to have a fantasy like that, but it came true for you. I'm so envious! pfft! so what if he's a married guy who was just using you?? you still scored big time! you shouldn't had reported his ass... you could had kept on riding that hot dick. what, you got raped? how could you be unwilling with somebody who was THAT attractive-looking? what is wrong with you?!"
the men pretty much will only understand if some male victim reported some fugly fat woman. If the woman happens to be at least moderately attractive, then they tend to blame the victim more than the woman... saying that he had to be gay or retarded enough to not want it at all from an attractive woman.
never mind that looks aren't enough for some men. some men simply just don't want to have sex with total strangers, or mere associates like teachers who they see each day but barely know much about.
No, ALL males are just horny scumbags who don't mind getting abused as long as they get laid, eh?
I know I shouldn't let it get to me... but I've heard this comment so many times that it's just rubbing me the wrong way. plus I know this guy who was raped by female dorm conslers at summer camp when he was very young. it was at an age where he hadn't even hit puberty yet, and thus was too young to even want sex. he didn't speak to anybody about it for a long time, mainly because he knew that instead of understanding what he went though, his male friends would only congratulate him for having lost his virginity at an absurdly young age. and he didn't want to be congratulated for having gone though an non-consensual experience.
so years later as an adult myself, if I heard that some teenage girl got into an "relationship" with a hot hunky male teacher that looked similar to the male teacher I used to fantasize about, would it be in bad taste for me to say things simlar to what the men up above said?
"You slept with somebody that hot?! Way to go girl... I used to have a fantasy like that, but it came true for you. I'm so envious! pfft! so what if he's a married guy who was just using you?? you still scored big time! you shouldn't had reported his ass... you could had kept on riding that hot dick. what, you got raped? how could you be unwilling with somebody who was THAT attractive-looking? what is wrong with you?!"
the men pretty much will only understand if some male victim reported some fugly fat woman. If the woman happens to be at least moderately attractive, then they tend to blame the victim more than the woman... saying that he had to be gay or retarded enough to not want it at all from an attractive woman.
never mind that looks aren't enough for some men. some men simply just don't want to have sex with total strangers, or mere associates like teachers who they see each day but barely know much about.
No, ALL males are just horny scumbags who don't mind getting abused as long as they get laid, eh?
I know I shouldn't let it get to me... but I've heard this comment so many times that it's just rubbing me the wrong way. plus I know this guy who was raped by female dorm conslers at summer camp when he was very young. it was at an age where he hadn't even hit puberty yet, and thus was too young to even want sex. he didn't speak to anybody about it for a long time, mainly because he knew that instead of understanding what he went though, his male friends would only congratulate him for having lost his virginity at an absurdly young age. and he didn't want to be congratulated for having gone though an non-consensual experience.